Everyone and everything will eventually let you down. Make no mistake about this – it’s just a matter of time. Be sure to understand this.
This is not pessimism but reality. You can then enter into life knowlingly. We can enter into love and engage with life out of understanding rather than ignorance.
Know that everything will eventually let you down. You cannot rely on anyone or anything to give you lasting happiness, so dont expect that from people or things. Anything else leads to suffering.
The only exception is the ever-present Self, which of course is no particular object, yet is non-separate from everything. It is all there is. It is the essence of who you are. It is you.
And luckily its nature is sat-chit-ananda.
Therefore take refuge only in the Self.
In the deep sleep state we lay down our ego [ahankara],
our thoughts and our desires.
If we could only do all this while we are conscious,
we would realise the Self.
(excerpted from Conscious Immortality, Chapter 13)
Tom: Liberation is total destruction of habitual egoic desires or vasanas. Only then does suffering end and ethical behaviour naturally arise. Only then do the vedic teachings come to fruition.
Vasanas naturally start to fall away once the illusion of a separate limited ‘me’ is seen through, and life becomes correspondingly easier as the freedom of no-self is seen, but just that seeing alone is not the full liberation until the vasanas have completely dropped off. Until then suffering and egoic behaviour will continue despite the realisation of freedom.
Even after the ‘Truth has been realised’, remain as the Self to root out ignorance and vasanas.
In sleep, in trance, in absent-mindedness there is no differentiation. What is that which was then but is absent now? The difference is due to mind.
The mind is sometimes present and at other times absent; there is no change in the Reality.
The same person who was in sleep is now too, in waking.The Self is the same all through.
Limitation is only in the mind.
The same Self is here and now, in the wakeful state, as in deep sleep when no limitation is felt. There was no mind in sleep whereas it is now active. The Self exists in the absence of mind also.
The above excerpt has been taken from Conscious Immortality, Chapter 13
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